I did it!

I did it. I have just emailed my boss with my letter of resignation. I am not sure how I feel yet. My heart is racing because as said before I don’t have anything new lined up. All I know is that I want to be happy and do things that I like to do. I know every job will have its ups and downs but I know everything will be better than going to work on a Monday and waiting for Friday to arrive.

As they say shit just got real! Here we go and let’s hope that everything will be ok in the end. I will dedicate today to updating my resume and sending it out. I have to say this is such a strange feeling but after complaining for 21 years it was time for something new. Life is too short to be unhappy.

Quit my job

So here I am on a Friday afternoon sitting in a cafe figuring out this thing called life. I only have two more days two write my letter of resignation and I am happy and scared to death about this new part of my life. I have a job that pays me very well but I am unhappy with it. I have been since forever. I am good at it so that’s why I stayed but I am turning 45 this year and it is time to start living for me. I already told everybody at work that I am quitting so there is no turning back but damn I am scared because I don’t have a new job lined up. I just know that for my own happiness I need to quit and do something else.

I already did this a few years ago but I had to go back into the same profession after 6 months because I didn’t know what I wanted to do and I didn’t save a lot of money. But let me tell you I was the happiest I have ever been. This time I did save money to pay all the usual bills and I kind of sort of know what I want to do now. I want to do something with Social Media and Public Relations. I don’t have a clue how I am going to get into this but I know that I am going to get there somehow. I can’t and won’t go back to my old job.

When you search online to see what other former teachers are doing now after they quit their job it’s always something that still has to do with education. I am going to keep on searching on the Internet to see if I can find people who really left it altogether and are doing something completely different. If you know someone or maybe you are that person, please leave a comment and share your experiences. I would love to get inspired by you. In the meanwhile follow my journey of a 40-year-old something that is willing to go for her happiness by giving up all the security she has now.

Notting Hill Carnival

My girls and I go to this event every year but due to the pandemic, everything was on hold for the last two years that has been happening these last two years we weren’t able to go. We are so happy that we are going this year at the end of August. I will keep you posted on what we take with us and how we eventually party for 3 days in Londen. I love having this quality time with my best friends because we get to talk and hang out without the interruptions of daily life.

Hairstyles

This is probably my favourite part of the blog. I love switching things up. I see something on YouTube and before I know it I am either ordering hair online or I head to the local beauty supply store. I literally have suitcases with hair extensions in them. I buy so much and some of them I haven’t even used yet. I am planning to use all of them in the upcoming weeks and months and I will write and of course post pictures with the new hairstyle. Let me know in the comments if you also buy too much or am I the only one? Let’s talk πŸ™‚Β 

Fro Life

My natural Crown

Crochet Curls

Protective hairstyles

Boho Locs

Protective hairstyle

Thoughts about Life

This part of the blog will be about my thoughts and things I am happy about or struggle with. The older I get the more I am at peace with who I am but the struggle is also getting real. I mean when I was in my twenties I had an image of what my life would look like and to tell you the truth my life is nothing like I had imagined.

I am grateful for a lot of course. I complained a lot about my job but this job made a lot possible. I had the chance to buy my house, go on vacations, and enjoy life. I will talk more about my journey to finding another job.

Exciting and frightening things are about to happen. I feel butterflies in my stomach but I am also a nervous wreck. I hope you will tag along for this new chapter in my life.Β 

You can also leave a comment and tell me if you are in this semi-midlife crisis or are content with where you are in life. I would love to hear your stories.

Thoughts about life

Events

After these two years of sitting inside because of the pandemic, I have decided that I am going to go to a lot of events this year. I can’t wait to get ready with my girls, dress up and go out and enjoy everything. I will be posting reviews of these events and of course, I will post what we wore. I will probably post them on Instagram first so if you want to be the first to see what these women over 40 wear when they go out——> Instagram

Notting Hill Carnival

Girls Trip

Parties

Enjoying life cause...why the hell not! πŸ™‚

Lifestyle

In this part of the blog, you will be able to read about how I am trying to change my lifestyle by stepping out of my comfort zone and trying new things. I have a few things on my list like traveling alone and basically doing more stuff by myself and getting to know myself a little bit better. I hope to fill this part with so much stuff and I can’t wait to read it a year from now to see how much my lifestyle has changed.

Living my best life!
Living my best life!