• Thoughts

    Confidence

    Being confident I’ve written about confidence before but it was in a post where I talked about lots of other things too. Remember me telling you that becoming more confident would be my new thing? Did this happen??? No cliffhanger here, so here is the answer and the answer is NO!!! The pressure to start being more confident and to…

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    Keeping up With Friendships

    Why am I like this? You know the older you get the more people you got to know over the years. I have met some wonderful people due to jobs I had or just people I have met through other people. I have been thinking about some of them lately and I don’t know why. I always think of random…

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    I am ready for my next season.

    How to start over after 40? (part 100 or something) I have been binge-watching YouTube these days, especially on the topic of how to get your life together, how to find your passion, and how to start over after 40. I will link a few of the creators that I liked at the end of this post. Of course, I…

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    Feeling uninspired

    Creative Block I am in a bit of a creative block. I felt it coming a few weeks ago but somehow managed to come up with topics for the blog. I usually post on Monday or Tuesday but I am a bit late (actually extremely late) because of this creative block. I skipped last week because I was tired and…

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    Relationships and My Attachment Style

    Valentine’s Day and relationships In the spirit of the upcoming Valentine’s Day, I thought it might be a good idea to tell you about a test I took a week ago. I saw this woman on TikTok who was talking about her attachment style. She explained this in such an intriguing way that it got me curious to also know…

  • Thoughts

    Turning 45

    Turning 45 I thought that I was going to cry all year last year because that was the year that I was going to be officially old. I was turning 45!!! I can’t believe that I am 45 now. HOW???? I am still not sure how I feel now that I am 45.  I mean I do think it’s old…

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    Happy New Year

    First of all. HAPPY NEW YEAR!! 2023 let’s go!! First post of 2023. How did I spend the start of 2023? I spent New Year’s eve alone, not because I don’t have friends or family who didn’t want to spend it with me but because I wanted to spend it alone. I wrote down my goals as you may have…

  • Lifestyle

    2023 Goals

    It’s that time of the year. GOALS GOALS GOALS! We are getting bombarded with posts about goals and things that people want to achieve. Well, here I am. I am people and I am going to join these other people and write down a few of my goals so I can live my best life in the years to come.  …

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    Dating these days???

    Dating these days I was trying to avoid this part for a long time cause people might think oh here is another post about bashing men. You will see that this is not the case in this post well not entirely I am kidding. If you are like me,  you basically live on TikTok these days. I would like to…