How to start over after 40? (part 100 or something)

I have been binge-watching YouTube these days, especially on the topic of how to get your life together, how to find your passion, and how to start over after 40. I will link a few of the creators that I liked at the end of this post. Of course, I can’t entirely agree with everything they say but I always write down what I can apply to my life and go from there. There were a few good tips.

My algorithm is working overtime cause now they are sending me suggestions on how to get rich in 1 month. I guess even YouTube is sensing how “desperate” I am becoming about how to fix my life.LOL!!!

Complaining

I didn’t want to write this post because I feel like I am complaining again and this is not the message I want to send. If you are reading this please know that I am not complaining it’s just that life doesn’t fix itself within a week. I wish it did but unfortunately, it doesn’t. I got so many nice messages from last week’s post. So many people can relate to how we are done with winter and with the fact that most of us don’t even know what we are doing. Most of us are trying to figure things out.

Feeling anxious again

I have noticed that I wake up feeling anxious again from time to time and I don’t like it. I haven’t had that feeling for 7 months now. I slept so well these past 7 months but as I said in my previous post I think this is because I need to start thinking about my next step. March is approaching and my contract is done by the end of May. 

Ready for my next season

I know I want to do something else next but the question is WHAT?????? Why can’t I wake up one day and have this lightbulb moment? I am so jealous of people who know what their path in life is. I am ready to skip to the next season of my life. This season is done and we are ready to see what is going to happen next. 

Being kind to myself

I am trying to be kind to myself and see every small step as an accomplishment because I always want to go from 0 to 100 without taking the steps in between. Being like this means that I usually quit something because I don’t get the results quickly enough. Also, I am very much afraid of failure. Although I am afraid of failure, there is some good news because I am almost done with this PR course I am doing. I have started so many of these at-home courses but never finished any of them. So I am very pleased to say that I am almost done with this one. My grades are good and I am happy about that.

Starting with a new course

Now that I am almost done with this one I have applied for an SEO course. I want to learn more about how Google works and how you can get your business higher in these google rankings. I realized that I like this due to this writing of mine. I want more people to read the blog and to reach this goal I need to learn how keywords work etc. I also one day hope to have my own business so it’s valuable information.

Accepting help

I also need to stop being so “shy” and start asking people to repost my blog so more people will read it. My friends always tell me to tag them so they can repost but I always feel like I am asking too much. I don’t want to bother anyone with my things. I need to stop feeling like this because they want to help me reach my goals.

Ramble 

Of course, this post didn’t make any sense again but low-key it did. I have decided to accept that my posts are just about anything and everything that is going on in my life. I try to do topics and stick to them but sometimes it is just nice to just ramble. I think that I need to make rambling my niche.😌

Links 

Here are the links to a few YouTube creators that I listened to/ watched this past week. I also listen to some podcasts. I will list them in another post.

https://www.youtube.com/@aliabdaal

https://www.youtube.com/@LynAllure

https://www.youtube.com/@Alexissparks

Anyway, I hope that you enjoyed yet another post that was all over the place. If you are someone who does know what they want can you let me know how you got to that point? I would love to hear it. You can comment here, on my Facebook page, or on my Instagram.

Talk to ya next week 🙂