Idea

 Am I actually posting weekly now?? Who am I?

I have been walking around with this idea. I have a name and everything for this ” event”. I can think about things again now that I have this job where I am at ease and relaxed but you already know this cause I have talked about my new job in my previous post. 

I want to organize an event for women where we will get together, have some drinks, bites, music, and talk about life in a fun, safe setting but again mostly fun setting.  I have been thinking about this for years now because when I was stuck and didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life, I could always read about solutions but never talk to people who are going through the same thing. Not that I am not stuck anymore but I am less stuck. I still don’t have my dream job but I am happier with my job now. I have a few months before I’ll have to start thinking about my next step.

I have written out a whole plan but now that I have this plan, I am wondering if people are even interested in such an event. I will put an Instagram poll on my story and see what the girlies think about this idea. You know how you always see people do stuff and you admire them but once it’s your idea you think it’s silly well that’s how I feel right now but it’s ok cause if I never do it, I will never know. I am all excited and nervous at the same time to even press publish on this post. I guess this is what they call imposter syndrome. They might as well put my picture next to the word in the dictionary πŸ˜œ

Things we will talk about are for example,  life in general, relationships, parenting or not wanting to parent, dating, work, not knowing what you want, etc. I want to do this because we can inspire each other to take steps you have never thought of before. I want to book a location in Rotterdam where we can do this and see how it goes. 

I can’t wait to tell you more but first I need to know if this is something my ladies would like to attend. This is a short post because I still have to figure some stuff out but I really hope to do this little “event”  in February or March. 

Back to work now. My students haven’t arrived yet so I am going to enjoy this quiet moment before they all enter the classroom. 

Talk to you again next week and feel free to leave a comment here on FB about this idea or slide in my DMs on Instagram to let me know what you think πŸ™‚  

Events

After these two years of sitting inside because of the pandemic, I have decided that I am going to go to a lot of events this year. I can’t wait to get ready with my girls, dress up and go out and enjoy everything. I will be posting reviews of these events and of course, I will post what we wore. I will probably post them on Instagram first so if you want to be the first to see what these women over 40 wear when they go out——> Instagram

Notting Hill Carnival

Girls Trip

Parties

Enjoying life cause...why the hell not! πŸ™‚