Oops I did it again πŸ˜…

Oops I did it again

As the title says: ” Oops, I did it again.” Β I did a thing and this is part 2. Click here for part 1. I just had a conversation with my bosses that I will not extend my contract. They did offer me and I do not take that for granted, but I don’t want to do this any longer. It was a job that helped me after I spent a whole Summer living my best life and spending money like there was no tomorrow. I was very happy when I got this job but it was supposed to only be for 7 months. These 7 months have passed and it’s time for a new adventure. At first, I did want to say yes but deep down I knew this wouldn’t have been the best decision.Β 

Learned a lot

I am grateful that I took this job because I learned a lot. It felt good to see how my students appreciated me and I loved it when some of them got their diplomas because of how I helped them with their planning etc. I can’t even plan my own life but once in charge of someone else’s life, I thrive hahaha.


If I had said yes to another year I would have become miserable but I never quit mid-job. I always stay until the end of my contract because I am very loyal. There is no way I want to become that person again and feel miserable every day. I learned a lot where I am now but it is time to move on now that I don’t hate the job. I did that for many years at my previous job. As I am typing this I feel a sense of relief, happiness, and STRESS!! I feel stressed because here we go again with the what now question. The what now also comes with good old excitement cause who knows where I am going to end up in a few months.Β 

Midlife Crisis

Wouldn’t it be better if I just bought a Porsche hahaha like some men do when they get into their midlife crisis? Β I hope to get my answers soon because I don’t know how many times I can just up and quit like this. I am not getting any younger and there will come a point when people won’t want to hire me because of my age. Even though I will forever be 28 in my mind. What do most women do when they get into a midlife crisis?Β 

Looking for a new job

I am staying here till the beginning of July and after that, I am going to take 2 weeks off. In the meantime, I am going to look for new opportunities. As always this is scary and exciting at the same time. I am going to miss a few of my colleagues here because they were so nice and fun! Of course, I will update you as soon as I find something new. But for now, I am counting down the days (34 to be exact) to freedom again.Β 

I might even have to go back to teaching for a few months πŸ˜…but this time I might go do it as a freelancer. I decide if and when I want to work. I want to save as much money as I can to make 2024 my traveling year. Traveling has been a dream of mine for some time now but I also have bills.Β 

Keeping you posted

As per usual I will keep you posted and on to the next adventure. If you liked this week’s post, you can click the like button on top or at the bottom. Feel free to share it if you think someone else might enjoy it too. You can also follow me on IG for more day-to-day pics and stories. Β Talk to you soon πŸ’›

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  • Kenneth Shearman

    Hi Indira, once i like what you’re saying,
    A lot of us are in the same mental and financial battles.
    I’m a passionate singer, but absolutely hate some of the gigs I HAVE to do because of financial decisions I’ve made in the past.
    Can’t just get up and leave, I wish I had first of all your age to able to make these type of bold moves.
    I wish you the best in your future adventure.
    I know in my guts that you’ll be alright cause you’re intelligent and resourceful.
    Keep these posts coming.

    • DushiLifestyle

      First of all thanxxxx so much for reading my blog. πŸ’› It is such a struggle to do what we love because these bills don’t care if we are unhappy with our job. I wish we could all just do what we love and earn a good living without worries or anything. I might have to go back into teaching for a few months just to save some money again so I can make my other dreams come true. Thank you for believing in me. This makes me very happy and I hope you’ll get to do only gigs you love in the future and that the money will be an extra bonus whilst doing what you love. WE GOT THIS!!! 😘

  • Cherrelyn

    Hi Indira,

    Ik ga je echt heel erg missen ! Maar ik ben ook zo blij dat je een nieuw avontuur aangaat en voor jezelf kiest. Ga zo door xx Cherr

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